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"Ghar ki Baat"

by Rajesh Chaubey

April 11, 2006

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What is our assessment of the Readers Write section of PD? Is it a dining room table across which we sit and discuss “ghar ki baat” with “ghar ke log” in the privacy of our “ghar”? Thanks to the PD team, this forum seems to be our own and we are tempted to think that we are only in the company of “ghar ke log” and we open our hearts out often exaggerating our anguishes suffered in our beloved motherland for impact.

We do not speak of the deteriorating law and order in other countries around the world and then look at the Indian condition in comparison. As pointed out by one of the readers, If I am out of Bihar I can enjoy Bihar bashing and if I am out of India I can enjoy India bashing. We automatically become know-all consultants with quick fix remedies for all maladies even if, as is the case most of the time, we are not fully aware of the prevailing situation on the ground. If we had all the solutions we should have stayed back fixed the system and become great for it. Here we say what could I have done alone against the system? The system is made up of you and me. I am happy more and more educated Indians are staying on to fight “the system” now.

Coming back to our “ghar ki baat” with “ghar ke log” on the “ghar ka website”. Thanks to the modern day search engines, PD is read by a great number of foreigners. Very few of them respond as the topics specific to India are alien to them and they do not want to hurt our sentiments in any possible way. But still they read the articles with the interest of an explorer who is exploring a new land. You must have noticed them surfacing when I wrote on broader issues like environmental degradation and the way the world was headed. Then there was the ludicrous incident when Bihar was being painted black over a crime news and a foreign reporter surfaced with a desire to come over to this stone age land with the interest of covering something akin to the Jurassic Park. Immediately, the tone and tenor of the discussion changed “desh bhakti and state bhakti” flooded the critics and he was promptly shooed away. So they are there, the unseen eyes, reading our words and arriving at their own conclusions of the distant land India, which they had once thought was populated only by snake charmers and semi-naked men herding cattle.

If a negative impression is created, who are the people affected most? The people who are in contact with the foreigners that is the NRIs and their kids. The desis are far away and they care little about the impressions created. Still we find that many NRIs paint the picture of a false all black India – a land of naked starving people who are cheap labor for the world. In this self-congratulation for having abandoned their rotten country, they forget that no one from a poor, ruinous country is welcome in a better society. They are regarded as people who have fled their country after ruining it.

My appeal to the ever so critical NRIs, who shy away from giving India the credit it deserves for making rapid progress in the last sixty years, is that please do not become Kalidas and cut the branch you sit on. You are doing a disservice to yourself and your kids. I respect your expectations and anxieties for our motherland but we must tone down our rhetoric considering practical limitations and the condition around the world. See the bright side of a rising India and sometimes write about that too.

The world runs on propaganda. You can call a dog mad and shoot it. Poor Saddam was painted black and was overthrown from power as it was drummed around that he is hiding WMDs. When no WMDs were found other stories of torture were circulated. Do we hear about the torture and atrocities in the other dictator-governed countries which are friends in the war against terror? No. There the dictators are nice, just people doing everything good.

What kind of propaganda are you creating for India? In the ultimate analysis it will be “Mia ki jooti, Mia ke sar.”

 

Comments:
Rajesh ji, guest is treated as God in India. After hearing recent incidences such as: "A fast track court in Alwar has sentenced Bitti Mohanty, accused of raping a German student in March, to seven years rigorous imprisonment and a fine of Rs 10,000. On May 11, 2005, a 47-year-old German tourist was abducted, raped, and robbed by two auto-rickshaw drivers in Jodhpur." Don't you think, it is our duty to alert the guests and help them securing their lives on visit to India? Or, should we keep them in dark, solely with positive images of India. Cautioning the people is not propaganda but patriotism.

With this forum, I further warn people not to allow any other person than driver in the taxi. Sometimes, after driving few kilometers, driver, request you to lift his friend next to his seat. For the sake of humanity, if you allow it, then there is high probability to get raped or robbed.

You had questioned about actual implementation than to shout. In my view, creating awareness is not a slogan, but actual implementation and we cannot do more than this, because I am neither a politician nor a bureaucrat. Being an ordinary citizen, I know my limitations.

Regarding helping people monetarily, how did you conclude that readers of Patna Daily are not doing this? Do you need us to publish our efforts?

One reader of PD has given us the example of how Keralites brands Kerala. Don't you think we Biharis also brand Bihar? Wherever we go, we say, we are from the land of Ganga, Buddha, Mahavir, Ashoka, Nalanda etc. There should not be any doubt on this.

For me, the Ghar is humanity and irrespective of regional barriers we should impel our best, without double thoughts to secure it from the social evils. Like the whole world is united against Global terrorism, the fight should extend to Global social evils with coherent efforts of awareness and dealt. - Tarakeswar Dubey - Apr. 13, 2006

Dubeyji, nice to know Bihar and India are getting good propaganda the world over though I hardly see any of it here on PD. It is also great to know that all those pathetic ideas of Bihar having gone to the dogs, India being the supplier of cheap labor and all those incidents of mugging and raping are positive propaganda with the sole purpose of advising foreigners regarding points of caution when they visit India.

Indians go to foreign lands with rosy pictures and end up having their luggage snatched, mugged and looted too. Many face racism. Two of my friends have had their briefcases snatched and one was made to stand on knife point in a secluded spot and watch while a couple of foreigners made love in front of him. After the act he was informed that he was a black dog and that they (the foreigners) had no inhibitions in front of dogs. The poor fellow shivers when he narrates it even today. Another gentlemen was threatened in a restaurant for being an intruder in the country by skin heads and had the presence of mind to take out dollars from his pocket and say "I am a visitor here and have come to spend these in your land." He was spared. Then there was the person from India who had his jaw broken and belongings robbed. Poor fellow was hospitalized there and had great difficulty in settling bills. "People like you..." episode happen everywhere. These are a few incidents which pop up in my mind now.

As Indians become more affluent and travel becomes cheaper with every passing day, a large number of our country men are travelling to foreign lands. I have never seen a word of advice on PD from NRIs to their own countrymen so as how to protect themselves and what bad things to expect when they go abroad. We Indians are one supposed to be one large family. I think we have that responsibility too and at a higher priority. - Rajesh Chaubey - Apr. 13, 2006


Kapo was a term used for certain prisoners who worked inside the Nazi Concentration Camps during World War II. The name stood for Kameradenpolizei, "comrade police", and referred to prisoners who have been recruited by their captors to police their fellow prisoners. They received more privileges than normal prisoners, towards whom they were often brutal.

Their tasks included transporting victims of gassing to the ovens, cleaning the gas chambers of human excrement and blood, removal of gold from the teeth of the victims and shaving the heads of those going to the gas chambers. Kapos were given special privileges within the concentration camps, but were seen as betraying their fellow prisoners for personal gain.

Indians too have suffered from the Kapo mentality. The British used Indians to brutalize other Indians. Today we have people of the same Kapo mentality out to brutalize the image of India and Indians in the eyes of the world as they are receiving more privileges elsewhere. They are unwilling to spend anything in terms of time, energy or money for improving India. Yet showing mock concern, in the garb of raising points for improvement, they are always critical about India and Indians. They see nothing good and no appreciation can come out of them. They pride themselves in not having traits of Indians. Some see India only as cheap labor supplier. Ask them to speak of ten bad things about the lands they have adopted and the Kapos get tongue tied. Don't ask them and still they will highlight a hundred bad things about India.

They fail to realize that they can not have a good image in the world unless they create a good image for India. - Rajesh Chaubey - Apr. 15, 2006

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