While
some of the suggestions are good
some of them are completely
ridiculous and at times outrageous.
Yes, Biharis should not try to hide
their identity-just by projecting
that you are from Delhi /Mumbai you
won't get anything, you only get
what you deserve based on your
qualifications and your
interpersonal skills.
At the same time there is no need
for Biharis to change their strong
accent. Yes, you can try to improve
English but no need to change your
accent. That way whole of South
India and West Bengal will have to
take lessons to improve their
accent. One can easily make out from
accent who is from Chennai- can't
we? That's the beauty of India.
Besides, which accent you will try
to pick up- British English accent
differs from that of US. Even within
UK accent differs depending on
whether you are from Ireland,
Scotland or England. As far
pronunciation is concerned you will
find people all over India and even
in Europe pronouncing words wrongly.
But still it doesn't invite stigma.
The name or identity of Bihari
invites stigma simply because Bihar
is not a prosperous state. Its as
simple as that. There is and never
was a second reason for it . A state
is represented by its infrastructure
and economic development. Let Bihar
develop its law and order and
infrastructure. Let some industrial
growth and economic prosperity.
Bihar is lacking behind not because
of accent and pronunciation-you
might not like the accent of Gujarat
or Madras still you will go there if
you are offered a good job.
Industrial growth was hampered
because of lack of infrastructure in
Bihar not because of accent.
The entire world is based and runs
on economics- let Bihar develop
economically and then same accent (
and even same pronunciation) will
become a brand name in itself. -
Dr Pankaj Kumar Mishra, UK - Jan. 7,
2006
I
agree with most of the points what
Mr Pandey has suggested but again Dr
Mishra is right in saying that there
is no need to hide our accent.
"Small drops make a lake", so even a
little contribution from us will
need to a change and a chain of
change. One example - I am a doctor
and I have experienced back home
that most of our colleagues
seniors/contemporary, they don't
share their knowledge and they feel
proud of it. Many a time it has
happened that only a particular
doctor can do an important test
(even though it's simple) because he
hasn't trained his juniors.
Presently I am working in Cardiology
in UK and I am sure Dr Mishra will
agree with me that here your Guru
always try to teach you all the
skills which he or she knows. So
this is how knowledge flows with
ultimate goal to help people.
So one thing which I can/will do and
others can do as well is to transfer
your knowledge to others by helping
our state and country. I am sure we
have got enough number of people to
do that, only question is they
should be willing to do it and its
not difficult. That's how you can
stop people traveling from far
places like Purnia to Patna and even
up to Delhi for heart ailments and
other conditions which leads to loss
of time and money which can be used
for other things. I am sure this is
true for other educational
activities as well.
So bottom line is SHARE AND CARE. -
Dr. Prashant Chandra Sinha, UK -
Jan. 8, 2006
I
appreciate suggestions given by Mr.
Pandey and further commented by Dr.
Mishra. I feel a person from Bihar
should be proud of being a Bihari
which does not happen. We hide our
identities and create a complex to
reveal ourselves from Bihar.
I wish to mention my own experience
in Delhi. I wanted four daily wage
laborers for doing some work related
to my project. My attendant
responsible for that told somebody
“Are baahar se chaar Bihari ko pakar
le; mere sir ko urgent kaam hai” (Go
and get four Biharis; my boss has
some urgent work). I placidly
reacted and told Raju you need only
three Biharis, why you asked for
four? He said, "Sir, aapne hi to
kahaa thaa", (You told me so).
I replied, "I asked for daily wage
labors, not for Biharis. However,
you wanted Biharis. If so, you get
three Biharis and with me, you will
have a total of four Biharis. The
attender said, "Mera matlab yah nahi
thaa sir bahar wale nahi samajhenge
daily wage labor. Aise hi samjhaana
parta hai (they will not understand
daliy wage laborers so they are told
like this)".
When the laborers came, I asked
their home state. Only one was from
Bihar, other three were from Madhya
Pradesh.
I realise the term Bihari has become
a synonym for daily wage laborers or
rickshaw pullers. However, some of
the corrective measures indicated by
Mr. Pandey are objectionable to me
as Dr. Mishra has objected regarding
the improvement of language and
accent. I see French individuals
saying 'support' as 'sooport', and
so on. East Asian countries have
developed a lot without changing
their tone. I have seen a person
from West Bengal or Orissa saying 'bhery'
for 'very' but people do not insult
them. However, if a person from
Bihar says that, they call it Bihari
accent.
We should not deny or take
aggressive approach. Instead, we
should have self respect for being
Biharis. - Ram Kumar, PhD,
Institute of Marine Biology,
National Taiwan Ocean University,
Taiwan, ROC - Jan. 8, 2006
First I would like to congratulate
Mr Pandey for his article and
truthfulness. In fact I both agree
and disagree with Mr Pandey with his
views. I always say I am Bihari and
I also emphasize the pride , to be
called as BIHARI. It is ridiculous
that now we have been labeled with
Lalluism and NOT been compared with
dignitaries of pasts like JP,
Rajendra Prasad, Vashista Narayan
Singh, Babu Kunwar Singh, Great
Ashoka, Lord Buddha, Lord Mahavira,
Kautilya and plenty more like Bihari
Babu, Shekhar Suman, Manoj Bajpayee.
There is no dearth of talents in
Bihar. You can go any where in world
and will see Biharis flourishing
everywhere.
I wish to let people know by telling
them about qualities of Bihari we
have ,rather than keeping mum.
Let's hope that Nitish Kumar will
prove himself as a good leader to
steer Bihar out of the jaws of
blemish and corruption and to
project Bihar as most prosperous
state in India. Dr K. Kanhaiya, U.K
- Jan. 9, 2006
Let me tell you that I am never shy
in telling that I am Bihari --- no
matter where I go in parts of India
or in the United States. I feel
ashamed and even offended when some
Biharis hide their identity. I have
heard some of my friends tell me
when they go to Delhi, they never
say they are from Bihar. When I
asked one what he says, he told me,
“I say I am from Kolkota or other
place, or I will never get a room in
hotel.” I said, ‘I always say I am
from Bihar, and I never have
problems getting anything done in
any part of the world.”
I am also offended by some of the
comments regarding Bihari accents.
Don't different regions have
different accents? Why it is only
Biharis whose accents seem to be
targeted? While working in one place
outside of India, some Bihari
workers were speaking Bhojpuri. I do
not speak Bhojpuri, but I understand
the dialect. Even though I prefer
speaking Urdu/Khari Hindi, I would
never discourage anyone from
speaking their native tongue. I find
in most circumstances, I am able to
understand what is being said, and I
can easily respond. Of course, there
are always individuals who are
disrespectful of any means of
expression they do not themselves
use. They will never be respectful
of regional differences, and will do
their best to make some people feel
inferior. When these things happen,
I remind people that they should not
feel ashamed to ever use their
native language in the way they
learned, accents and all. In the
world, there are hundreds upon
hundreds of languages. I am sure
that while we think they are all
known by this time, there are still
many yet to be discovered, and many
more that have become extinct.
Language unites us as human beings
and distinguishes us from each other
as well. Regional differences in
accents and dialects exist all over
the world and in almost every
language. I encourage all of us to
improve our command of our own
language. Grammar and vocabulary are
simple things to pay attention to
--- not because we are inferior, but
because the use of words is integral
to success. I have read that
Americans are now being encouraged
to learn Hindi as a way to better
understand India, in light of the
ties that exist between the two
countries.
I am not ashamed to speak my mother
tongue in the presence of my
co-workers. If I am on the phone in
a personal call, or in a
conversation with another Indian on
the job, I will freely speak
Urdu/Hindi.
It seems to me that these people who
are so proud of their command of the
English language might have some
lessons to learn themselves. Some of
these people are bound by their own
mother tongue in their own accent
when speaking English. I suspect
that their desire to “educate”
Biharis stems from a basic dislike
of Bihar. These are the kind of
people who think that someone is
inferior merely by place of birth.
It does not matter to them that the
facts support the Bihari trend
toward excelling academically. They
seem blind to Bihar’s success in
fostering high achievers in IAS/IPS,
and medical and engineering entrance
exams.
Biharis: speak loud and proud! The
world is listening! - S. M.
Khurshid Anwar, New York, USA - Jan.
11, 2006
I am sorry Pankaj, Prashant, Anwar
ji and all Bihari brothers/sisters
if I offended you by talking about
Bihari Accent. You know these were
impromptu comments.
I myself have strong accent which
were caught by several people and I
don't think majority of them had any
bad intention. At time I felt that
people had hard time understanding
me do my accent.
I very well remember that at one
time a 5 year kid whose name was "Kushal"
pointed to me that I am pronouncing
it wrongly as "Kusal"
But any way I would like to
apologise to all of you if
inadvertently I offended you. -
Ravi Pandey - Jan. 11, 2006 |