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Boy Vs. Man

by Aninda Bose

July 5, 2006

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News on NDTV.Com

Heading: Boy jumps to death in West Delhi

"A 23-year-old boy jumped to his death on Wednesday morning at the West Delhi District Centre."

Here is the actual link to the story.

Couple of things immediately jumped into my mind:

At what age does a boy become a man? Is it that till he is single he will be referred to as boy? That logic can't be true because I personally know several people who are in their 50s and 60s and have never been married in their lives.

Or is he considered a boy until he lives with his parents? That also couldn't be true because many families I know live in a joint family where grown up, married sons live with their wives and children in the same house as their father, and in some cases, even grandfather.

Is a 23-year old youth in India eligible to buy liquor and cigarette and be able to vote in elections or is he not? Last I checked, he is.

So why they are frequently referred to as 'boys'?

Another thing, unrelated to the above questions, that bothers me about this article is that the writer Anasuya Roy injects her (I am assuming it's her and not his) own 'opinion' when she writes, "It is clear that the Delhi police are under tremendous pressure to find a way to stop the incidents from being repeated in the future."

First, how did she come to this conclusion? Isn't this her opinion and not exactly 'news' per se? And second, how can you prevent someone who is bent on committing suicide by jumping from a tall building? "Hello police? I am about to jump from the fifth floor of my office. You have exactly 5 minutes to come and stop me from jumping or else you will find my dead body lying on the ground."

Is this how it is supposed to work?

Is it just me who is seeing more and more personal opinions being injected in articles in the name of news or others feel the same way?

I welcome your response.

 

Comments:
You are a little wrong. Get a cell phone, jump from a building high enough to allow you to make a call before you hit Mother Earth. Call the police to report that you jumped from the building and will be on the ground any second, so please come and stop me. I agree with you; it is all a stupid idea and putting it on paper or a computer without thinking does not make it logical.

No one can stop anyone if they are really committed to do any kind of crime or suicide. Even if all the people who said they wanted to do harm were rounded up and jailed, they would find a way to hurt themselves. Even though suicide is an unfortunate and desperate choice, it is still a personal decision. Every person and every thought or desire can not be policed externally.

As far as personal opinions being interjected into news reports, as long as people write the reports, there will be bias. Sometimes it is just more obvious. I have to say, however, that with stories repeated a large number of times, it sometimes does feel like a kind of brainwashing.

The Boy Vs. Man thing is something different. One would imagine that at the age of majority, a male would be called "man." To some extent, all males are both "boy" and "man" all their lives. I think this is why Americans liberally use the word "guy" -- it applies to all ages. If you act stupidly, you are a boy, and act sensibly, you are a man. On a lighter note, boys buy and men pay. Assign the title "boy" or "man" accordingly. - Anwar SMK, New York, USA - July 6, 2006

Ha ha ha... I can't stop laughing about the images invoked by Mr. Bose and Mr. Anwar about jumping from a tall building. Very funny!! - Anil Kumar - July 7, 2006

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